One thing that's a big player in torquing the harmonic balancer bolt (well, actually any bolt), is lubricant. With a Honda Civic timing belt that I did a few years ago, their doc was very specific about exactly where to apply (and to not apply) oil to the bolt contact surfaces. However, the Aveo doc has no such spec, which adds a huge amount of uncertainty and variability into the process.
For my Aveo belt jobs, I've applied a very small bit of oil to just the bolt head sleeve, which is the same as the what Honda specifies for the Civic. I was able to get the extra 45 degree torque-to-angle using just a regular 2' bar, so I'm guessing that might be the difference in our results (assuming that you wiped all contact surfaces clean and didn't do any lubrication).
I can't tell you if the torque you applied is enough to keep it locked in solid. I do know that another forum member had that bolt spin out, but he used an impact tool, so it's impossible to know if there was even the initial 70 ft lbs applied in that case. Personally I'd redo it, but also suspect you'll be fine with it asis.
Are you also saying you couldn't torque the motor mount bolts to the specifed ft lbs? If so, that would surprise me quite a bit, because those torques are not very high. And it also makes me wonder if there might be something wrong with your torque wrench (reading low/torquing high). Just complete speculation on that, but perhaps it might be a good idea to check your torque wrench accuracy.