*Update*
I did the service today with Dad's assistance. We ended up being able to reuse the gasket. It came off perfectly, no tearing, no peeling, flaking or anything else. Dad and I are going to redo the service again in the spring, since it's not a complete drain. We were able to get 4 quarts out of it, so there isn't much of the "old" fluid left. Dad had me start it and count to four and shut it off, that causes it to "dump" a large portion of the remaining fluid without damaging it. Before we did that, we only drained about 2 quarts out of it after taking the pan off.
The fluid was a little dark, but didn't smell and wasn't smokey or lumpy. The magnets were clean, except from dad called the "normal fuzz" that they have. There was a "tad" of it, at best. (Always nice to see.)
All of the info you gave me was spot on, Thanks! Hopefully this thread will help someone else who does a service themselves that has this transmission. There isn't a lot of "specific" information on here about Automatics, and especially a 5 speed for that matter. Almost everything I found on here was about manuals, and that doesn't apply to Chewy. lol
I bought two gallons of the Max-Life, and only used one so I have an unopened jug for the Spring. Yay!
When we service it in the Spring we will use the new gasket and repeat this, and then it will be all "new" fluid.
I've always checked it every month, along with all fluids. I would rather check it the 1st of every month, then at every oil change. That's not often for me since I don't drive very far and the oil is always as clean as it was when I poured it in. lol
Thanks Again
-Andrew B.