for as much research as saying that dex3 is fine there is as much saying it is not. the oem fluid should last 100k under normal conditions, which we know is not real world, 50k might be too soon. But its probably too long of an interval if your running dex3. ESSO LT71141 is more like type iv fluid than dex3.
http://www.taligentx.com/passat/main.../ESSOSpecs.pdf
i'll simplify it, the friction additive in dex3 breaks down at 2-3x the rate of ESSO LT71141, as posted in my propaganda at the top of the page. dex 3 loses friction as it breaks down, ESSO LT71141 breaks down THEN loses friction.