I called another shop - this one a reputable local shop with some good online reviews. They too said it would cost money for an estimate to research the oil leak. I can try a few more places but it seems the estimate is going to cost me money. I have no problem with this but even the second shop said it could potentially be a few hours depending on the leak. My concern is spending $100-$200 for an estimate and then potentially another $1000 for the repair. I suppose it could be cheaper but isn't the main oil seal around $1000 to fix? Then I still need to timing belt + assembly done, winter tires, rear shocks. I can just see this costing me a few thousand dollars.
I get that some of this stuff is general maintenance. Yet we are still looking at a car that has a blue book of $2500-$3000. Here I am spending another $2000 on it. Who knows when the tranny or something else major goes. I know it's always a roll of the dice with high mileage vehicles. Just venting.