EAD15 That last one looks like what I was missing, and the zip file has everything else. I at least know where to look now (could not associate the correct grounds to check off the computer, etc. Thank you.

Gramble, the car won't even signal the relay. If i jump the relay, it cranks fine. But the cranking is futile because the signal to send spark and turning on the fuel pump is not there.

Hopefully this is just a ground issue, or something. I doubt I am lucky enough to be able to get the ECU to start sending signals out without a trip to the dealer though. Same issue with the 2nd ECU installed. Will post what it is if I find it.