Originally Posted by
mikedudley17
clay bar may work as well
+1. It definitely won't hurt it. I've used it a couple times to take off tar and bug residue, works pretty well for that. And it leaves the paint feeling smooth.
Something like this maybe?
http://www.amazon.com/Meguiars-G1016...2710387&sr=8-1
You might want to get the aggressive clay though. Pics would helpful in determining what sort of product to use.
At first I thought the OP was talking about some dude rubbing up on his girl after a funeral. All I could think of was Chaz from wedding crashers.