How in the world could an '08 with less than 39K miles have needed even close to that amount of work (hint: it didn't). You were taken for a major ride by this stealership, and IMO you'll be taken for another one if you go back to this outfit again. Find a good independent shop that specializes in front-end work, and let them try to fix whatever this bunch of criminals messed up. Not telling you it's going to be inexpensive, but at least there's a real good chance it will be done right this time.