Quote Originally Posted by 4g63gst20
This is probably the most random question you are finna find here on aveoforum.com.
But ok here is it is.
How many of you here have kids? And how many tries did it take? How many got it on the first try?
The reason im asking this is because me and ex tried many times to have a baby, never worked. Then when she is supposed to start taking the pill, doctor says she is pregnant.
After the baby was born and for 3 yrs barely used any " protection" and never got pregnant again.
Now something leads me to believe that somehow, "my gun shoots blanks"
I don't plan on taking any action but just wanna see if its kinda normal that it takes a few tries or maybe somebody else " helped" here.( ex did cheat before).
Im not sure where to start here.

Just for giggles Id go get a DNA test done. If you cant afford it or some ****, go to Maury (kind of a joke, kind of not). That could give you an answer pronto if you were to be shooting blanks. If the baby is not yours, you have some decision to make and Id hope you would make the right ones. Or you could do what NYChevoo said and ask for a referral to see a doc about your baby gravy. Technically, when a woman is on birth control she should not be ovulating (but things happen). If both avenues check out in your favor, Id get her into a doctor and see if she might have some sort of hormone deficiency/excess or something that would cause her not to release an egg while off the pill or to just get more information as to what could be going on. It may seem like an obvious thing but there can be alot of mis-information and not to dis-credit any members on this board, but a car forum is not a place to get birthing/birth control/pregnancy info. All we can give you is our experiences which is partialy what you are asking for.

No kids here. No rush, but I am looking forward to it

Hope this helps a little bit.